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No advice to give but can share that in our experience much of the same happens at our school.
ALL children are not treated equally nor given equal opportunity to participate. There is very little communication to the parent body regarding try outs, practices, etc. Athletics are given high priority and seem to be dominated by 2 teachers (one who has 3 children, all elite athletes at the school). They seem to pick and choose the best of the best, and that is how it is in the world I suppose; yet many children are being neglected and majority of families are not being informed. Our administration says that all information is communicated on the morning announcements and if the children are interested, they have to "listen". I myself have been at tryouts and seen certain children being told to "try again" (high jump for example) while others are given one chance only. When the teacher was confronted, yes, very angry and defensive over the lack of fairness. There are no guidelines at our school and our principal refers to how her hands are tied due to the "collective agreement" a little too much for our satisfaction.
I have no direct experience on the Elementary side. But I can comment on a few points.
“no right or jurisdiction over athletics end of discussion”. All school councils have right and jurisdiction to review and make recommendations to the Principal on any matters that concern the whole student population. This would include policy/guidelines on Athletics. What you have no right to do is query why a particular student was treated one way or another, or review the actions of one particular teacher. Beyond the theory let’s review what is practically happening. Most coaches do so on a volunteer basis as practices/tournaments happen after school hours. The worst case scenario for a coach is having to explain to every parent why their child did not make the team. This I expect is what they are defending against. In addition their ultimate “leverage” on the principal is to say that the pain involved in coaching this is not worth the benefit and stop coaching. Perhaps leaving the school with no teams. So where is the common ground? Like most issues it comes down to communication and understanding what is driving behavior. If you want a policy which could lead to coach’s decisions being questioned and reviewed all the time by parents- it is not likely going to happen. If you can use the Principal as the “facilitator” for discussion you can present what outcomes you would like to see(as you have done in your question) and have the coaches present what concerns they are guarding against. If you can then assure respect for coaches decisions but work together to outline philosophy and guidelines that everyone wants to see it should be a win/win.
Good Luck.
Doesn't it all just come back to accountability and transparency?
If information regarding team participation/try outs/schedules, etc. is not being clearly communicated to the entire school population (children as well as parents) and there is an "exclusive private club & by invitation only" precedent being allowed to continue (which is also the case at our school) then there is no transparency. If parental concerns and administration are being bullied by threats of teachers "quitting" because they don't get to have it all their way (which amounts to emotional blackmail) then clearly there is no accountability.
Let them quit I say and bring in new blood who will play fair and give ALL children equal opportunity to at least have the experience of showing up, trying out and giving it their best effort (and perhaps becoming motivated to train and work hard as failure is its own best reward) ....which is what "should" be happening.
The more I read on this website the more obvious it becomes to me that bullies don't just exist on the playground at our schools.
In this day and age there is no excuse that such information shouldn't be clearly posted on each school website as part of the monthly calendar (could even have a "Team Page" dedicatd for such a purpose) as well as included in school newsletters. Period. This is the "information age".
Hi Michelle,
It sounds like the meeting with your principal was productive, and things are getting on the right track, no pun intendended :-) Sports programs can be very tricky for schools. Most programs require a teacher-coach to meet liability and insurance requirements, so if teachers are not interested or choose not to coach, it can limit the number of activities available. It is important, as Gord says, to find some common ground and try to find a reasonable solution that works for everyone.
One of the strategies that our school used to address parents' concerns about try-outs (and cuts) for school teams was to encourage more intramural programs. School teams are more competitive by nature, and there are often try-outs and 'cuts' involved, which can be hard on some kids, but which are also a normal part of sports activities. Intramural activities often can be run at lunch time, and can be set up so that they are open to all interested students. They are usually more fun-focussed and less high-pressure. Also, because teachers and kids are playing with other teachers and kids in the school, it can build more engagement and bonding within the school community. With less inter-school coordination, planning, competitive pressure etc., they are less demanding of teachers' time, and don't require sports 'expertise', so you may find that more teachers are willing to participate as coaches or team leaders. Our school ran intramural volleyball, basketball, and floor hockey with great success - many previously non-coaching teachers jumped in to help out, and when I dropped by occasionally to see the games, both students and staff were having a great time, while also learning new skills, teamwork, etc.
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